Jim:
I'm going to ding you here...
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Jim Casey @ Feb 2 2006, 11:03 AM)
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The industry is dominated by Part-Time Hobbyists and those without a clue of what business ethics are. This is not a good thing if we want the industry to grow and be respected.[/b][/quote]
I am part-time but not a hobbyist. I am a part-time professional. Don't confuse part-time with being a hobbyist or unprofessional.
I run the business as a full-time business and it is a business; that is, a profit making enterprise.
OK, now I'll kick the soapbox to the side.
I too see venues discouraging IPOD parties. I've provided sound reenforcement for two IPOD weddings so far. They did not choose the MC option so I came in, set up, gave them the laminated instructions, wished them luck, and left. Well, I did hang around for a while as I had nothing better to do. The relative/friend they had MCing had no clue as to how to run a wedding reception in both cases. It was a Charlie Fox from the start because in both cases the MC was asking other people what to do next. In the second one the bride saw me standing in the doorway and asked me to help, knowing that I have lots of experience with weddings. I told her that I was just observing and my help would cost her some cash up front plus, I wasn't dressed for it. I had tried to convince her to go with our DJ service or add the MC option onto the IPOD package but she'd hear nothing of it. I finally left after watching him and the guy with the IPOD limp through the first dance.
When I came back an hour before the end time almost everybody was gone and the bride was in tears. Her exact words to me were, "You tried to tell me but I wouldn't listen. My wedding was ruined." At least she didn't try to blame me.
I had a conversation with the banquet manager about it. He said it was all a shambles. Both of these were at the same venue. They are considering asking their wedding clients if it will be an IPOD wedding and seriously asking them to reconsider based on these two.
Tom